I'm Passionate and fun, patient and respectful, affectionate sensual young old soul here looking for some mental and physical compatibility in or out the bedroom. Not cougar hunting, but have a natural affinity for women around my age or fairer in age then myself. Me: Fair-skinned black male, October born, 5’10, 177, fit, newly 43, nicely endowed 8' clean and ddf free and don't mind testing, clean shaven and clean as a whistle, well groomed and well spoken, single dad. A very unselfish lover and person in general with a you like it, I love it attitude, you happy I'm happy seriously. Open to most everything in the bedroom from vanilla to neapolitan. I love giving and receiving, give an awesome acupressure massage, love touching, kissing, slow and hard, being attentive to my partner's needs and desires. Love music, dancing, wine and dining, great cook, indoors or under the covers/outdoors painting the town red. Funny, laid back, easy, comfortable, patient. but assertive. Always respectful unless asked otherwise in the bedroom lol. I'm pretty much an open book! I live in the Santa Clarita/Valencia area but can travel within reason. Hope to hear from you and make a new friend soon, ciao!! Serious only..